Focused, in a distracted sort of way
So yesterday after mass, I went to the Kolache Factory to get some grub. While driving over to get food, I was listening to a Rexband song, Sonrise where the end of each verse was the statement, 'I need your love'. I got to the store and bought my kolaches, and as I was walking out,... Continue Reading →
While considering this topic of modesty over several months (and I'm still learning and working on it), I began to wonder, and this was a stronger motivation for me than the above arguments, whether in not taking modesty seriously or not wearing a veil, am I partially making excuses to ultimately feed vanity? If I... Continue Reading →
'Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.' This the kicker, isn't it? The end all statement that kind of sums up the selflessness of love, for me. It is a willingness to be ground to the ground, for love of someone else. We who are so quick to stand... Continue Reading →
'Love does not insist on its own way' This one is easier said than done. We are so used in society today, to being told its good when things go our way, that we have forgotten the joy that comes from true love and sacrifice. We often put men/women who put their lover's desires before... Continue Reading →
I know people always quote Corinthians when it comes to love but I think we romanticize it as a bunch of gushy feelings. Really though, pick up that passage again and look at it with the eyes of practicality. You'll see soon enough how tough it would be for you or I to do those... Continue Reading →
Why is it that so many Indian adults are so opposed to the idea of dating? I find it odd that this is the knee jerk response to dating and relationships? I think that rather than telling your kids not to date, you need to educate them on relationships with other people and on love... Continue Reading →
Coming from a South Indian and Catholic background, you best believe I have been told all my life that a "boyfriend" is a bad thing. Not necessarily by my parents, but by the culture and kind of community I grew up in. When I was in college, I remember doing a double take when my... Continue Reading →
Sonia Kurian
Beyond the Surface 